Be a Better Soulmate: Which of Their Six Core Human Needs Matters MOST

TonyRobbins6CoreNeedsI’ve been watching Tony Robbins, Life, Business, and Love Coach, one of the best living examples of a Jupiter Atmakaraka person ever, and it occurred to me that what he is teaching, and what I want to tell you about the Atmakaraka (the AK, Self-Producer Planet) and the Darakaraka (the DK, Spouse-Producer Planet), fit together beautifully.

Tony often talks about the six (6) core human needs. They are universal and apply to all humans, and when you know a person’s AK, you know which of these needs they need the most.

The Six Core Human Needs According to Tony Robbins

We all have the need for these six things to varying degrees according to our innate nature:
Connection/Lovea strong feeling of closeness or union with someone or something
Significance:  feeling unique, important, special or needed
Certainty/Security:  assurance you can avoid pain and gain pleasure
Variety:  the need for the unknown, change, and new stimuli
Growth:  an expansion of capacity, capability, or understanding
Contribution:  a sense of service and focus on helping, giving to, and supporting others

Knowing the “essence” planet, the AK of your partner, means knowing which of these six core needs they need the most. While we all need these things, we need them to differing degrees.

For example, say your spouse is a Jupiter AK person. Your spouse will have all of the above six core needs, but number five and six, will be the deepest needs of them all.

If you want to have influence with your Jupiter AK spouse, then be a person who also values growth and contribution, though you don’t have to value it to the same extent as your Jupiter AK spouse does, or you can just make a point of supporting their stronger need for growth and contribution.

If you want to persuade your Jupiter AK spouse to be part of something that is dear to you, just put it into the language and the terms of growth, expansion, contribution, and giving back. If what you want to do is helpful to someone in some significant way, then your Jupiter AK spouse will make your cause, their cause, too.

If you want to make your Jupiter AK spouse very happy, then let them give to you, support you, and make YOU happy in some way. Jupiter AK people live to give and they want to see that they are helping you to attain ultimate happiness.

How Can You Help to Fulfill Your Lovers DEEPEST Needs?

We are all very complicated as there are many factors in the birth chart that can modify the AK, and there are planetary factors that can be more dominant than the AK, but here is a short, simplified list of what each planetary AK needs the MOST:
Connection/Love: Venus and Moon AK people need this the most
Significance: Sun and Mars AK people need this the most
Certainty/Security: Saturn AK people need this the most
Variety: Mercury AK people need this the most
Growth: Jupiter and Moon AK people need this the most
Contribution: Jupiter and Mars AK people need this the most

My spouse’s AK is Saturn and my AK is the Moon. He values Certainty/Security more than I do, and I value Connection/Love more than he does. Of course, he needs love/connection too, and I need security/certainly also, but we each need them to different degrees.

If we were business partners rather than spouses, my need for connection would make me the best person to interact with our clients/customers and nurture those ongoing relationships, and his need for certainty would make him best partner for future planning such as market testing a new program or product before investing our resources.

Isn’t this quicker, simpler and easier than taking a long, confusing personality test, or learning by trial and error (mostly error because we all tend to think our partners have the same needs to the same degree as we do), or marriage counseling?


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You can be a total beginner astrology student for this class, or you can be an advanced astrologer. Even if you are not normally interested in studying astrology, with this “snapshot” technique, you will be able to recognize every planetary type of person in your life and satisfy their soul’s deepest needs.

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